That’s better… ;)

That’s better… ;)

30 Years….Always.

Bon Jovi…always.

Anonymous asked you: What is your opinion on the Jon and Richie fight?

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I’ve already answered this.

This is getting really annoying. 

Anonymous asked you: Why do you even try to pretend you like Richie. Posting a photo now and then doesn’t mean you like him. I see through you.

Thanks my sweet Jovigirl!

I feel the same about YOU

Anonymous asked you: It’s more fun when you’re around. Just wanted to tell you that.

Thank you!

I don’t have as much time as I used to but I love getting on here with some of you and having some “JoviFun!”

Sending out lots of love to all my Jovifriends…you all make it fun to come on here

(Whoever sent this…message me and let me know who you are ! ? !)

Anonymous asked you: I just wanted to tell you that you and your blog have been my favorites since I came on here. I check your blog every single day. Sometimes you make me laugh but most of the time you make me feel wanted and accepted here. Please don’t let the haters get to you. You should keep your blog just the way it is because a lot of us love it and you. These people who are sending you these awful messages are just jealous of how much you are loved here and the fact they probably will never be like you.

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Aw thank you. 

I don’t want anyone to think I post those things because they upset me.

It’s really the opposite. I find them pretty amusing.

But messages like this…well, this is really sweet and I totally appreciate that you took the time to say this. 

Again…not sure why you did it on Anon but again…thank you

Anonymous asked you: That anon probably said you’re only a jon bon jovi fan because you focus way too much on Jon’s looks

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"WAY TOO MUCH…" According to whom may I ask?

So many ways to answer this…

(Not that I need to defend myself because this is my blog…but I went back over my last 50 or so posts and not once did I mention Jon’s looks…If you are referring to the fact that I primarily reblog photos and gifs of His Godliness I again repeat, THIS IS MY BLOG, and I don’t go around telling other people how to run their blogs so why are you? 

And btw out of the Bon Jovi Fandom blogs run on here about 80% are primarily about Jon. Another 10% heavily feature him along with the other band members and another 10% aren’t about him.

Do you go and harass the Richie Sambora Bloggers about not posting Jon content? Or do you suggest that they concentrate on his looks too much? Hmmmm. Just wondering.)

Enough said about this I believe…oh, and HAVE A NICE DAY.

So I have been sent many, many messages about what I think about the band and their current situation. I will once again state that as I am just a fan like all of you, I have no inside information and I choose to not post personal opinions on each and every little piece of information that comes out in the media.
As a matter of fact, I don’t believe anything that has been posted in the media, heresay by people who “know the band” or even what has been said in interviews by Jon or Richie. This is a private matter between the band and they are not going to play it out in the media. 
Even if there is a small kernal of truth in what Jon or Richie has said, it would only be “the truth” of the person saying it and what I have learned in life is there is your opinion, my opinion and somewhere in the middle you find the truth. Ask two people to tell the same story and you get very different versions of the events effected by their own personal perspective.
So basically, my view is to wait and see how it all plays out. No matter what is ever said or how it is resolved I don’t believe we will ever know the whole truth. Secrets will be taken to the grave for sure on this one.
Now having said that, I know many people here have lost their faith in the band and the fandom due to the differing opinions, interpretation of events and other people’s comments, but overall, I have not. I would be lying to say that it has not made me sad, disappointed and even angry somedays but my lifetime love for this band has not waivered.
Again, the Mom in me thinks that no matter how hard times get, if people pull together, put aside their differences of opinion and support one another, things will get better.
We have no power over what happens with the band but we do have the power to stay positive and support one another.
Recently, Braydon added a post that said”
"BEAUTIFUL THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVITY."
I believe, because of his tagging, that he was referring to the negativity in our fandom recently and how we are all fragmenting. Fans turning on the band members.  Friends turning on friends. People who used to find joyin the camaraderie distancing themselves and many even leaving Tumblr or the fandom altogether bacause they can’t stand to read the hostile and negative opinions being shared.
It made me think that instead of dwelling on the hard times the band has been going through, I once again choose to concentrate on the good and the positive.
What this band and their music has brought me is a lifetime gift of joy and I’m forever thankful to them. THE ENTIRE BAND. Thirty years is a long time for any band to stay toghether, we will just have to wait and see where the road takes them.
As long as they all end up happy, I will be happy for them. Together, or not. It is a small gift to give in return for the music and the sacrifices they have all made in their own lives to give us the music and the countless tours, for so many years.
So there you go Anons. That is my opinion. You can stop asking.

So I have been sent many, many messages about what I think about the band and their current situation. I will once again state that as I am just a fan like all of you, I have no inside information and I choose to not post personal opinions on each and every little piece of information that comes out in the media.

As a matter of fact, I don’t believe anything that has been posted in the media, heresay by people who “know the band” or even what has been said in interviews by Jon or Richie. This is a private matter between the band and they are not going to play it out in the media. 

Even if there is a small kernal of truth in what Jon or Richie has said, it would only be “the truth” of the person saying it and what I have learned in life is there is your opinion, my opinion and somewhere in the middle you find the truth. Ask two people to tell the same story and you get very different versions of the events effected by their own personal perspective.

So basically, my view is to wait and see how it all plays out. No matter what is ever said or how it is resolved I don’t believe we will ever know the whole truth. Secrets will be taken to the grave for sure on this one.

Now having said that, I know many people here have lost their faith in the band and the fandom due to the differing opinions, interpretation of events and other people’s comments, but overall, I have not. I would be lying to say that it has not made me sad, disappointed and even angry somedays but my lifetime love for this band has not waivered.

Again, the Mom in me thinks that no matter how hard times get, if people pull together, put aside their differences of opinion and support one another, things will get better.

We have no power over what happens with the band but we do have the power to stay positive and support one another.

Recently, Braydon added a post that said”

"BEAUTIFUL THINGS HAPPEN WHEN YOU DISTANCE YOURSELF FROM NEGATIVITY."

I believe, because of his tagging, that he was referring to the negativity in our fandom recently and how we are all fragmenting. Fans turning on the band members.  Friends turning on friends. People who used to find joyin the camaraderie distancing themselves and many even leaving Tumblr or the fandom altogether bacause they can’t stand to read the hostile and negative opinions being shared.

It made me think that instead of dwelling on the hard times the band has been going through, I once again choose to concentrate on the good and the positive.

What this band and their music has brought me is a lifetime gift of joy and I’m forever thankful to them. THE ENTIRE BAND. Thirty years is a long time for any band to stay toghether, we will just have to wait and see where the road takes them.

As long as they all end up happy, I will be happy for them. Together, or not. It is a small gift to give in return for the music and the sacrifices they have all made in their own lives to give us the music and the countless tours, for so many years.

So there you go Anons. That is my opinion. You can stop asking.

Anyone know what happened to Jon !?!

Fill me in please <3

BONJOVIFAMILY CHALLENGE!

So we’re going to let the haters and angry fandom members win?

I don’t think so.

I challenge all Bonjovifamily Members to send positive, uplifting, supportive submissions to The Confessions Blog.

Instead of complaining…let’s do something about it.

Are you with me?

BONJOVIFAMILY BIRTHDAY LIST…

Have you messaged me yet with your birthdate?

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C’mon! You know you wanna!

Everyone in my house is up and gone&#8230;
Let the Bad Medicine begin&#8230;

Everyone in my house is up and gone…

Let the Bad Medicine begin…